Thursday, July 29, 2010

Do You Have Work-Induced A-D-D?

Do you have, what I am calling, work-induced ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder)? I know I do. And worse yet, it is pretty much self-inflicted.

What do I mean by WIADD? (Everything needs an acronym, right?) Basically, it is multi-tasking to a point where you are not really getting twice as much done by doing two things at once. In fact, you’re actually getting half as much done because the quality isn’t as good. That’s a totally subjective conclusion and based on zero hard data. But tell me you don’t think that is true?!

I mentioned “self-induced” earlier. I say that because I voluntarily use two monitors at work. That way, I said to myself, I can still read and respond to email on one monitor, while participating on a web conference on the other!

Now, sarcasm aside, I actually do find it helpful most of the time. As I just keep my calendar up on one screen and do my work on another … purely for easy reference. (Talked myself into that one, eh?) However that rationalization defeats my point. My point is, BE IN THE MOMENT. Or in the world according to Ty Webb, “Be the ball, Danny, be the ball.”

My ask of you: if you’re on a conference call, close your email and listen to what they are saying. Because invariably you will half-heartedly agree to something on that conference call which you really didn’t hear fully. Only then to realize the ramifications 2 weeks later, to which if you had been listening in the first place you would have never agreed to. And now, you’re two weeks behind schedule.

So, give someone the respect that you would want. Be a good, no great, listener. And then maybe we can solve this dreaded WIADD.

Thursday, July 8, 2010

Get out and Walk



I guess you can consider this part 2 of my last post of June 4 (Porch-aritaville). This is about turning off the TV after dinner, get off you’re a$$ and take your family for a walk around your neighborhood.

That is one of the things that we have really tried to do at least 4 times a week. After dinner, the kids clear the table, and we burn off some dessert calories by taking a casual stroll around our town. And taking a walk contributes to so many good things.

1. It is exercise. Not a lot, but it gets you moving
2. It gives you time to decompress from the day, and see how everyone else’s day was
3. You get to meet your neighbors, chat for a bit, and build up your sense of community
4. Security. People out and about see things, (think town watch), and when there are people around, teenagers are less likely to do stupid things
5. My favorite … if you have kids, listen to them talk. Once their mind gets going and they start rambling about something or singing a song they just made up … I’m telling you, ain’t nothing better.

So, try and make a point to grab your significant other, or just you, and enjoy your neighborhood after dinner. Trust me, it’s good for you.